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The College and Professional Athlete

Playing sports at the college or professional level is a dream for many aspiring athletes, but it is much more challenging than most players and parents realize.

The percentages of high school athletes who make it into the collegiate and professional ranks are relatively low, underlining the competitive nature of these pursuits.

College Participation

First and foremost, making it to the collegiate level is an achievement in itself. According to NCAA (National Collegiate Athletic Association) statistics, only a small fraction of high school athletes move on to compete at the college level.

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The percentage varies by sport, with more popular sports having higher competition – but on average only 5% of high school athletes are able to play in college. And that doesn’t even consider scholarship athletes…

This underscores the importance of exceptional skill, dedication, and often a combination of academic and athletic competence to stand out in the recruiting process.

The Professional Ranks

The transition from college athletics to playing professionally is an even more exclusive path. The NCAA reports that only a small percentage of college athletes move on to play at the professional level.

It’s crucial to recognize that the journey to becoming a professional athlete is a challenging one, and success is not guaranteed even for those who excel in college sports. Injuries, changes in performance, and the highly competitive nature of professional sports leagues all contribute to the uncertainty of reaching the highest levels of athletic competition.

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The Benefits of Athletics

While the percentages may seem discouraging, it’s essential to recognize the broader benefits of participating in high school sports.

Engaging in athletics promotes physical health, teamwork, discipline, and leadership skills, contributing to personal development regardless of whether a student-athlete advances to the college or professional level.

Most importantly, the lessons learned through sports can shape individuals into well-rounded, resilient, and determined individuals, laying the foundation for success in various aspects of life.  The time management skills, the dealing with setbacks, and preparing to perform translate so well into the business and professional world!

Recovering From Injury | The Mental Side

Coming back from injury isn’t an easy task, especially in the athletic world.  Athletes get hurt often, as it’s a risk in any game.  But what does it take to fully recover and return to the field?

Of course, there’s the physical rehab, but what about the mental side?

I’m sharing an article from Dr. Patrick Cohn from Peak Performance Sports, and I’d invite you to check it out…


A positive mindset is where you focus on a successful and speedy recovery rather than negative “what ifs.”

Every athlete will experience an initial adverse reaction to injury, but moving forward from injury requires that you process your circumstances and then focus on your mental and physical recovery one day at a time.

How do you bounce back from a sports injury?

The first step in bouncing back is to process your emotions. The sooner you can work through your intense emotions, the quicker you can move forward.

The next step is to evaluate the severity of the injury with a doctor, physical therapist, or athletic trainer.

Afterward, create a rehabilitation plan, including how you will work on building your mental toughness. Each week, assess your progress and adjust your plan as necessary.

Each of these steps helps you focus on solutions or positive action. The goal is to maintain a positive attitude and a sense of control throughout the recovery process to return to competition physically and mentally stronger.

Late in the 2023 NFL season, Philadelphia Eagles linebacker Zach Cunningham suffered a hamstring injury and watched from the sidelines as the San Francisco 49ers dominated the Eagles, 42-19.

After the game, Cunningham talked about how difficult it was to be injured but stated he was focused on supporting his teammates and rehabbing his injury.

CUNNINGHAM: “It was really tough. I mean, having to sit and watch from the sidelines, it’s always hard having to sit out anyway…. It sucked a lot, man. You gotta focus on the stuff that you can control. I was out there trying to help where I could as far as anything I saw out there on the field. That and working on getting back. That’s my main focus.”

Focusing on what you can control, such as the recovery process, and supporting your teammates is empowering. Focusing on what you can do helps you maintain a positive perspective and can improve your mental and physical recovery.

Focus on what you can control. Setting goals to maintain a positive and productive focus is important when injured.

Set three athletic or rehab goals each day, such as 15 minutes of visualization, maintaining a positive attitude during rehab, discussing game strategy with your coach, or strength training.

Setting goals helps you move forward and build mental toughness along the way.

A Must-Listen Podcast for Real Estate Professionals

I’d like to link to a podcast from my good friend and fellow mortgage originator Mike Nelson.  Mike is a fantastic resource and provides some wonderful perspective on what’s happening in the marketplace today.

In this episode, he is interviewing real estate agent Paul Gusiffand it’s a must listen.  If you are short on time, start listening at the 6:20 mark to the end.  It’s really incredible!

Paul has been top tier agent for over 35 years and provides some excellent insights on what’s happening today and how to get ready for the next business cycle.

Paul Gusiff is one of the top real estate agents in Southern California.

Mike Nelson provides fantastic service for loans in Colorado, Florida, and Texas.

I hope you enjoy it!

Baseball Parenting: Fostering Growth, Resilience, and Sportsmanship

Parents can help play a crucial role in shaping a child’s experience and success in baseball.

When kids take up baseball, parents can provide support and guidance that not only enhances their athletic abilities but also fosters essential life skills.

Encouragement, patience, and promoting a positive sportsmanship culture are vital elements in baseball parenting.


First of all, baseball parenting is about providing unwavering support and encouragement to young athletes, especially at younger ages.

Kids often face challenges and setbacks in the sport, and it is crucial for parents to be a source of motivation during these times.

Remember – even the best players fail 7 out of 10 times at the plate!

Celebrating their successes and offering words of encouragement when they encounter failures helps build their confidence and resilience – and in many cases makes them want to work harder to get better.


Secondly, patience is a virtue that baseball parents must absolutely embrace.

The development of baseball skills takes time and practice. Understanding that progress is gradual helps parents avoid placing undue pressure on their children.

By maintaining a patient and supportive approach, parents create an environment where young athletes can learn at their own pace, explore the game, and improve without feeling overwhelmed.


Furthermore, promoting a positive sportsmanship culture is essential for the baseball parent.

Encouraging respect for teammates, umpires, coaches, and opponents…and adherence to the rules of the game instills values that extend beyond the baseball field.

This sounds cliché, but teaching children the importance of good sportsmanship helps them develop strong character traits, such as integrity, humility, and empathy, which they can carry into other aspects of their lives.


Lastly, it is essential for parents to strike a balance between involvement and allowing children to experience the sport independently.

While guidance and support are crucial, parents should also give their young athletes space to learn from their own mistakes and develop their decision-making skills.

Independence and autonomy in the game can empower kids to take ownership of their progress and achievements, fostering a sense of responsibility and self-reliance.

In Conclusion

Baseball parenting is a critical aspect of a child’s development in this most difficult sport.

Encouragement, patience, and promoting a positive sportsmanship culture contribute to a nurturing environment that allows young athletes to flourish.

By offering solid support, understanding the importance of patience, and instilling essential values, parents can play a vital role in their children’s baseball journey while imparting lifelong lessons that extend far beyond the confines of the baseball field.

“Lessons I Learned While Playing For Mike Leach”

As you might have heard, one of the more interesting and dynamic coaches in college football, Mike Leach, died of a heart attack this week.  He was 61 years old.

Coach Leach was a colorful character, always great in his press interviews and known as a brilliant offensive mind when it came to football.

More importantly, however, he was meticulous in his preparation…and that’s where things get interesting. 

Not only was he preparing his players for next Saturday, he was preparing them for life, which is what great coaches do.

I’m linking to an article from one of his former players, Cody Campbell, as to how Coach Leach impacted his life.  It’s a must read and you can find it here…

By the way, Cody Campbell played offensive line at Texas Tech for Coach Mike Leach and then for the Indianapolis Colts before co-founding Double Eagle Energy Holdings in Fort Worth, Texas. He is also a member of the Texas Public Policy Foundation’s board of directors.  You can find out more about Cody here…

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